Michael Rill

Einfach machen

Author: Michael

  • Help others to help yourself

    I just watched both seasons of Shrinking and loved it. Hands down, best show I watched in a long time. It very much filled my cup.

    There is a big scene at the end of Season one where the main character imparted this nugget of wisdom in a one-liner:

    My wife believed that the best way to help yourself was to help others.

    Today I came across a post by Elle Griffin:

    I think there’s a misguided belief that self-development makes us better people. But if we want to be better people we have to focus on others, not ourselves. At some point, I realized this and changed tack. Rather than ask what I needed, I asked what my community needed.

    Social Development > Self-Development

    Maybe the universe is telling me something and I should listen.

  • Joan Westberg with a great post about why cynicism is a deadened.

    The cynic sees a proposal for change and immediately lists why it won’t work. They’re usually right about specific failure modes — systems are complex, and failure has many mothers. But being right about potential problems differs from being right about the whole. […]

    Cynicism comes with hidden taxes. Every time we default to assuming the worst, we pay in missed opportunities, reduced social trust, and diminished creative capacity. These costs compound over time, creating a self-fulfilling prophecy in which cynical expectations shape cynical realities. […]

    Here’s a more charitable reading of cynicism: it’s not an intellectual position. It’s an emotional defense mechanism. If you expect the worst, you’ll never be disappointed. If you assume everything is corrupt, you can’t be betrayed.[…]

    What would it look like to embrace pragmatic meliorism instead of cynicism?

    • Combining skeptical analysis with constructive action
    • Acknowledging problems while focusing on solutions
    • Learning from history without being imprisoned by it
    • Maintaining high standards while accepting incremental progress

    We Don’t Need More Cynics. We Need More Builders by Joan Westberg

    What a lovely word: Meliorism.

  • Doing more of what you love – of friction and systems

    This season, we finally got back into skiing. For twelve years, it felt out of reach—first because we lived too far from a ski area, then because having young kids made the whole process seem too daunting. But this winter, we decided to give it a shot. We planned a quick weekend trip to Canada to see if skiing as a family was even feasible.

    After the weekend, the verdict was unanimous: We wanted to ski more.

    It would have been easy to stop there. We could have let logistical friction creep back in—the packing, the planning, the sheer effort of getting everyone out the door. Instead, I set a personal goal: Let’s get good at going skiing. Not just skiing itself, but the process of making it happen regularly.

    So I figured out a system that made it easy:

    • Standardized packing: We created dedicated ski gear boxes so everything had a place and could be packed quickly.
    • Checklists: We made a list of what to bring and updated it every time we forgot something.
    • Organized storage: Gear had designated spots when we got home, so the next trip starts with zero searching.
    • Entertainment for the drive: Keeping myself and the kids engaged made long drives feel effortless.

    And it worked. Going skiing now takes less than 15 minutes of preparation. The bar to getting out the door is low enough that I’ve decided to go skiing on a whim—like a random Saturday night, deciding at 4:45 pm and getting in three hours on empty slopes. As a result, we’ve gone far more often than I expected. We definitely got our money’s worth out of those season passes.

    The power of removing friction

    This isn’t just about skiing. The reality is that many things we want to do—things we genuinely enjoy—get blocked by friction. The effort to start feels too high.

    Think about exercise. If you have to find your gym clothes, put together a workout plan, and psych yourself up to leave the house, you’ll probably skip it. But if your clothes are ready, you have a go-to routine, and the gym bag is already in your car, suddenly it feels easy. Also deciding up-front on your exercise program (selecting the Peloton class the night before or writing down your sets), packing your gym bag, making sure that you are set up for success, drives anticipation and makes the gym session something to look forward to.

    Or take reading. If you have to hunt for a book, choose something new, and find a quiet spot, it’s unlikely to happen. But if you always have a book within arm’s reach—on your nightstand, in your bag, or on an e-reader—you’ll find yourself reading far more often. I now have an old Kindle at work and get some reading time in over lunch.

    Systems over willpower

    We tend to think motivation is what drives action, but in reality, systems make the difference. When something feels easy to start, we are far more likely to do it. The hardest part of most activities isn’t the activity itself—it’s the effort required to begin.

    By designing systems that eliminate unnecessary friction, we stop relying on willpower and start building momentum. Systems lower the bar for success.

    How to apply this to your life

    1. Identify something you want to do more of. Skiing, working out, reading, learning an instrument—whatever it is.
    2. Pinpoint the friction points. What makes it hard to start? What are the aspects you dread? What small obstacles add up to inaction?
    3. Build a system to remove that friction. Can you make setup automatic? How many decisions can you front-load, so that in the moment you have very little left to decide? Can you simplify prep? Can you create an environment where doing the thing is the default choice?

    It’s a simple shift, but an incredibly powerful one. Try it in one area for a few weeks and see what happens. Then look at other areas of your life that fill you with latent dread. Life is too short not to go skiing.

  • The pivot fallacy

    The Reckoning

    It was  5:47pm on a Friday after a long week of work. Only the quarterly business review separated the team from a well-deserved weekend. Routine. But this one felt like a reckoning. The product team sat in uncomfortable silence as the VP of Product sketched bold new goals on the whiteboard. These weren’t the goals they’d been working toward. In fact, no one was entirely sure what had happened to the goals they had been working on.

    “This is what we need to do!” the VP declared, underlining the new vision with a flourish.

    After a long stretch of silence someone finally spoke up: “What about the initiatives we kicked off last quarter? Are they still a priority?”

    The VP frowned, already erasing a corner of the whiteboard. “We’ve pivoted since then. This direction is more aligned with our growth strategy.”

    The word “pivoted” hung in the air – again. Frustration simmered around the table. The engineers felt whiplash. The designers were demoralized. The product managers were overwhelmed. No one could deny the ambition in the VP’s vision, but they’d seen this play out before: a flurry of excitement, half-finished work, too many fragmented commitments and no measurable outcomes. Nobody could remember the last time they delivered something great they were truly proud of. 

    This time, though, one product manager decided to take a different approach.

    The Turning Point

    After the meeting, she stayed late at her desk, sifting through notes from the past few months. It wasn’t pretty. Goals had shifted. Timelines had slipped. Decisions were scattered across various messaging threads and impromptu hallway conversations.

    “If we keep running like this,” she thought, “we’re never going to get anywhere.”

    So, she did what no one else had done: she started documenting.

    She wrote a clear product plan—not just what the team was doing, but why it mattered. She outlined the objectives, the customer needs, and the measurable outcomes they aimed to deliver. She created a timeline, linked dependencies, and included a section for open questions.

    The next day, she shared it with the team.

    “This is what we’ve been working toward,” she said, “and this is how we’re tracking against it. If leadership wants us to pivot, we need to capture that too—but let’s make sure we’re not losing sight of our progress along the way.”

    The team was skeptical. Documentation felt like just another chore. But as the weeks passed, something remarkable happened.

    The Moment of Truth

    When leadership called another meeting to discuss new priorities, the product manager brought the document.

    “We hear where you’re coming from,” she said, “but here’s what we’re working on right now, and here’s how far along we are.”

    She walked them through the plan: the problem it solved, the expected impact, and the remaining steps. Leadership paused. The VP nodded. “You’re right,” he said. “Let’s get this across the finish line first.”

    For the first time in months, the team felt clarity.

    The document became their compass, keeping everyone aligned and focused. When new ideas surfaced, they weren’t dismissed—they were documented, reviewed, and prioritized against the existing plan. Everyone understood not just what they were working on but why.

    Momentum built. The team started hitting milestones. And when they shipped the product, it wasn’t just functional—it was impactful, solving a real problem for customers.

    The Power of the Written Word

    Without written plans, leadership fills the void with ideas—often brilliant, but chaotic and ever-changing. Documentation doesn’t kill ambition – it harnesses it. It captures the need for explicit structure to create a more inclusive environment, where the new starter has the same access to information as the “old guard”. 

    A well-written product plan provides a foundation for creativity and execution. It turns a team from reactive to proactive, from scattered to strategic.

    It creates clarity in the chaos, showing leadership where progress is happening and enabling teams to balance focus with flexibility. It turns pivots into informed decisions instead of knee-jerk reactions.

    In the absence of a compass, people wander. But with a product plan in hand, teams don’t just execute better—they aim higher and get there faster.

  • Words to live by

    “No solutions, only tradeoffs” – Thomas Sowell

    It’s all too easy to come up with solutions when you are lacking the context. But in most cases in life it’s less about finding clever solutions and more about engaging in deliberate trade offs.

  • The Magic of Acorns

    The way to create value in this world is to create things that are big and beautiful. The Builder and the Gardener go about this in different ways.

    The Builder looks around and sees rocks of different sizes: things he can use to build. Some of them are small pebbles, and some are large boulders. He picks the biggest one he can feasibly move with his own strength and muscles it into position.

    The Gardener, on the other hand, pays attention to the small things, carefully examining the ground at his feet.

    The Magic of Acorns by Alex Komoroske

    Alex Komoroske with a beautiful story about the long-term benefits of investing into systems and talent, which have little pay off in the short-run but build the equivalent of compounding interest over an extended period of time.

    Makes me think where I’m working to short-term minded and where I should invest and delegate more.

  • When America was ‘great,’ according to data

    The good old days when America was “great” aren’t the 1950s. They’re whatever decade you were 11, your parents knew the correct answer to any question, and you’d never heard of war crimes tribunals, microplastics or improvised explosive devices. Or when you were 15 and athletes and musicians still played hard and hadn’t sold out.

    Source: When America was ‘great,’ according to data

    Lots of interesting stats and charts in the article. It pairs well with Max Kiener’s Why Time Flies and Tim Urban’s The Tail End. The main takeaway: don’t yearn for years past, but make the most of the here and now. The feeling that time accelerates is normal and a reminder that we only have so much left.

  • Clarity

    Productivity isn’t the challenge; it’s a red herring. The true unlock is in clarity. Without it, we are just checking off tasks – busywork. Real productivity comes from clear view on where you want to go which will drive focus. It’s not about long lists. It’s about meaningful work.

    Ignore the siren call of social media; it’s a trap that drains energy and blurs your focus. Strive instead for those days where you are so engrossed in your task that time stands still and flies at the same time. Those are your best days. And they need clarity on what is meaningful and makes a difference.

  • Rituals of modern product teams

    In case your podcast queue is running low, I highly recommend queuing up this presentation from Figma’s Config 2023 conference: Rituals of modern product teams – Yuhki Yamashita, Shishir Mehrotra (Config 2023) – YouTube

    The basic premise is that effective teams have established a number of rituals over time, and Yamashita and Mehrotra give a quick rundown of some of those rituals (screenshot below). I am fascinated by the organizing framework they use to categorize those rituals: Cadence, Catalyst, Context. Teams should make sure they have the right mix within their meetings (or updates – not everything has to be a meeting) and not confuse one with the others.

    Anyway, I highly recommend listening to (or watching) that talk.  

  • The Impulse Cooktop

    It is a rare feat for a stove top to be exciting, but this just sounds remarkable:

    And then you learn that the stove has a battery in it, which means that unlike most other induction stoves, it can plug into a standard 120-volt outlet. You don’t have to get a pricy circuit upgrade, or an even pricier electrical panel upgrade, to install it.

    Plus, the battery delivers enough power to boil a liter of water in 40 seconds. And you can still cook if the power goes out. And its eligible for a 30% tax credit.

    And then, your brain explodes when you learn the battery is a smart energy storage device that can charge up when power is cheap in the morning so that you save money when you use it in the evening, when power prices are highest. You can also participate in programs that will pay you to dispatch power from your stove to the grid when demand is high.

    Impulse Labs’ Sam D’Amico Explains How He Built a Mind-Blowing Stove – Heatmap News

    I know, this is a completely random post, but I was just flabbergasted by this. This sounds amazing. Even the name is fun.